Let’s Really Be Seen
Difficult conversations: Wouldn’t it be lovely if everyone just understood us, without having to have the difficult conversations that get us there? If we want to be seen, heard and known, that means we have to be willing to share what is going on inside of us.
Let's look at what we are bringing to the conversations we are having with the people we care about. Does our approach sound like, “Here’s what is happening for ME,” or are we coming more from a perspective of, “Here’s what YOU need to fix”?
Oh, how I sometimes wish that my life would be better if only "THEY" would change. The truth is deeper and more vulnerable than that, however. We must own our parts in the creation of our experiences and relationships, and we must make room for ourselves to be truly known. The bonus when we let ourselves be seen that deeply, is that we actually wind up knowing ourselves so much more too. This is the launching pad for empowerment and wisdom. Join me, won’t ya?
