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  • Writer's pictureJill Brocklehurst

Above All - Principle

“Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the not-quite, the not-yet, and the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach. The world you desire can be won. It exists.. it is real.. it is possible.. it's yours."

~ Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged


We live this crazy thing called Life. There isn’t just one ‘manual’, but many, all beckoning to us… saying, “This is the way.” There are constant distractions. The internet succeeds in luring us into its grasp, promising ‘something better’, and we follow along only to discover that we have become more disgruntled… even depressed… instead. 


In this whirlwind of existence, where everyone seems to be chasing an elusive standard of perfection from the outside, we often forget the essence of what truly matters – our principles.


Our principles are lighthouses in the stormy seas of life. They guide us when we are lost, provide peace when we are feeling hopeless, and offer clarity in the midst of chaos. It’s easy to get swayed by the glittering allure of social media, where lives are curated to showcase only the best moments (often leaving us feeling inadequate about ourselves). But it’s our principles that remind us that life is not just about the highlight reels. They allow us to remember that Life is also about the struggles, the setbacks, and our resiliency in overcoming them.


As we navigate through our ups and downs, we find that our true strength lies not in conforming to societal expectations, but in adhering to our own values. It’s about understanding that happiness is not a destination but a journey. Yes, this journey is fraught with challenges, but it is these very challenges that mold us. They make our victories sweeter and our joys more profound.


In our pursuit of happiness, we may forget that it’s okay to be flawed, to have bad days, or to feel lost or uncertain. The thing is, our imperfections are what make us human, and it’s in embracing those imperfections that we can find our true selves. Being ‘perfect’ is not the goal. Instead, the aim is to be authentic… to be true to who we are, and to what we believe in.


Realizing this brings us to the core of our existence –  and underneath it all is the understanding that life is not just about individual achievement, but also about how we impact others. Our lives are revealed in the small acts of kindness we do, the words of encouragement we offer, and in our willingness to listen to understand. It’s about building relationships, fostering connections, and creating a community where everyone feels valued and heard.


As we reflect on our lives, it is important that we acknowledge our shortcomings. “I have my demons,” we may admit to ourselves. Yes, we do, but we must never give up because of that. We must never quit trying to live up to our beliefs. In our struggles there's always a hidden strength, a resiliency that can help to define us. It is possible to hear the joy in our voices, the laughter in our conversations, and to also make space for the silent battles we may fight every day.


We ain’t (any of us) ‘perfect'. But, in our ‘imperfection’ lies our beauty… our uniqueness. Through making peace with our imperfections we find our humanity; our ability to connect, to empathize, and to grow.


In the end, what truly matters is not how ‘flawless’ we are, but how courageously we hold onto our principles, how fiercely we fight our demons, and how authentically we live our imperfectly perfect lives.


Special Note: I used OpenAI's ChatGPT to help brainstorm and refine ideas for this article.



ACTIVITIES for TRANSFORMATION


Daily Reflective Journaling:

~ Set aside two dedicated times each day to write in a journal.

 In the morning set intentions for the day.

 In the evening, reflect on the day's events.


Focus on Principles and Values: 

~ Each journal entry should revolve around your personal principles and values.     Reflect on decisions you make during the day, considering how they align (or don't align) with your core values.


Acknowledge Imperfections and Growth:

~ Write about your imperfections and the challenges you face.

Reflect on how these aspects of your life contribute to your personal growth (rather than viewing them as failures).


Gratitude and Positive Reflections: 

~ Include aspects of your day for which you are grateful.

Focus on small victories and moments of joy, acknowledging how they contribute to your overall happiness and sense of fulfillment.

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